I have a friend who is going through a trial right now. I hate that this is happening, but I know God will bless her in it.
What is your first reaction when a friend has a trial in their life? Do you pour words of encouragement on them? Bible versus? Love and affection? My first reaction is a little different, I usually want to punch the person who is causing the trial. Yes, this does seem a little harsh. But harsh I am. Now I didn't say I did it, but I do want to. My second thought is how can I make this go away for her. And as you all know we can't, but He can. He can and will. The Lord promises us in His word:
1 Peter 5:10 ESV
And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.
Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.
Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.
No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
When a friend has a trail. Go first to the author of all TRUTH. Seek His word and speak them to your friend. Encourage them to seek Him. Matthew tells us how to address conflict. James tell us we will be tested. Romans tells us to endure. And Philippians is my favorite "
Philippians 4:6 ESV
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. "
Blessings,